And I wait.

Patience is not one of my finer virtues. I have gotten a little better over the years, but overall, I don't wait well for things. I get impatient easily with people who take too long, I get frustrated when I can't get something I want right away, I make quick decisions and act on them... whether they are super great decisions or not.

I had a pastor who every week during the pastoral prayer would pray for "those who were waiting for medical tests." I thought every week that that was a nice prayer, but kind of thought it was silly to pray for it every week. I now know, it is not. I have learned a whole new level of impatience in the last week and a half... Waiting for medical tests.

10 days ago I had some pretty serious medical tests. There are some serious things they are looking for that are related to my whole body numbness I have been dealing with. I had blood drawn, a spinal tap and detailed pictures taken of my spine after dye was injected in my spinal fluid. The tests were rotten and horrid. The waiting for results is worse.

They told me about 3-4 days at the hospital... And I did speak with my doctor to hear that my spine looked fine, but the big tests we are still waiting for. So Thursday I got impatient and called to see if they had heard. No call back. So I called yesterday. They had the results! But... The doctor had not gone over them yet, and he was not in, so eve n though the tests are back, I still have to wait through the weekend.

My mind has been going crazy playing the "what-if" game, and there have been lots of tears shed. That is all added to the fact that I feel horrible most of the time due to whatever is going on. I want to get things figured out. I want a treatment plan. I want it to be fixed.

I have prayed all week, "Let the tests come back today, Lord!" Obviously the answer has been no this week. I kept praying, and praying... And yet, I heard no answer.

I did some reading on waiting this morning. Elisabeth Elliot wrote,

“I realized that the deepest spiritual lessons are not learned by His letting us have our way in the end, but by His making us wait, bearing with us in love and patience until we are able to honestly pray what He taught His disciples to pray: thy will be done." –Elisabeth Elliot

I have been begging all week, "Lord, just let me know what is wrong with me!" I have been so distracted all week by this looming over my head. And every moment I am not thinking about it, I am just trying to distract myself with other things: pouring myself into my teaching, immersion into the television, hanging out with family. I have tried to fill my mind with so much noise so I did not have to think about everything. 

What I have not been doing is letting God bear with me in love and patience. I have not been praying "Thy will be done." I have not been being still, and knowing that He is God. I also read in one of my devotion this week, 

Let the dew of my presence refresh your mind and heart. So many, many things vie for your attention in this complex world of instant communication. The world had changed enormously since I first gave the commandment to be still and know I am God. However this timeless truth is essential for the well-being of your soul. As dew refreshes grass and flowers during the stillness of the night, so My Presence revitalizes you as you sit quietly with me. - Jesus Calling by Sarah Young

My soul has been so consumed with worry and noise, I have not allowed room for God to come in and refresh me. Every prayer has either been "woe is me" or "why are you allowing this God?"  and even in a bad moment, "I am so mad at you, God!" as well as "I want to know RIGHT NOW God!" I have not sat and said, "Here I am, Lord. Let me be still and let you wait with me, let You love me, and hold me during this time of uncertainty. Let your will be done as we wait."

I will definitely pray now for those who wait for medical tests, always, and this week i have learned how to pray. Not pray for the outcome, not pray for it to come back soon. But pray that in the waiting, the love and peace that Christ brings is felt in hearts. Pray that in the stillness of the night, God refreshes the spirit of the weary. Pray that God's will be done is the prayer spoken and felt.

So, I wait. I wait with God's love over me. I wait with God's strength as my foundation. I wait with my hope not in the results, but in God alone. I will wait in the arms of my God, who knows suffering himself.

My soul quietly waits for the True God alone, because I hope only in Him. He alone is my rock and deliverance, my citadel on a high hill; I will not be shaken. Have faith in Him in all circumstances, dear people. Open up your heart to Him; the True God shelters us in His arms. - Psalm 62:5-6, 8

Amen.